D.R.I.C. DAY
Dear Soul Sister,
As December wraps its chilly arms around us, it brings not just the sparkle of holiday lights but also a reflection of past pains and lessons learned.
December, for me, is not just the season of joy and celebration; it's also a keeper of some of my most challenging moments. It’s a time that reminds me of goodbyes to unhealthy relationships, which, at the time, felt like devastating losses. It brings back the pain of leaving behind what no longer served me and the heartache of betrayal; I remember the grief of losing a child during this supposedly joyous season. It also reminds me of bittersweet memories of last Christmases with loved ones who have since journeyed beyond.
Each of these experiences, though wrapped in sorrow, carried within them seeds of profound personal growth and rebirth. It's in these moments of deep introspection that I have realized the dual nature of December – a time of endings, yes, but also a time of beautiful new beginnings.
Leaving those all-consuming toxic relationships was a painful yet necessary step towards my betterment. It forced me to look inward, to heal parts of myself that unknowingly welcomed such pain. I learned to embrace my true self, to love myself fiercely, and to discern the real from the faux. “Eat the chicken and spit out the bones”, my grandmother used to say. I learned to take the good from life's experiences, to love passionately, knowing good and well that the next moment is never promised.
Each "last" brought with it a lesson in presence, in love, and in the resilience and gentleness of my own spirit. I learned to cherish the love that was already around me, instead of seeking validation in unhealthy places. It taught me the value of giving myself grace and the importance of sisterhood.
December is often seen as a time of reflection and closure, as the Sun travels through Sagittarius and then into Capricorn; ironically, this astrological journey reflects my own. Sagittarius, with its fiery, optimistic spirit, teaches us to find hope and joy in our journeys, to expand our horizons and embrace the lessons life brings.. Capricorn, on the other hand, encourages us to be resilient and unwavering, to build upon these lessons, to find strength in our struggles, and to strive towards a better, more fulfilled self. For me, and maybe for you too, December is a rollercoaster from the depths of grief to the heights of gratitude and self-growth.
Today, on my dear sister-friend Dric's birthday, who we tragically lost to domestic violence, my heart feels heavy with her absence. Yet, in her true Sagittarius spirit, she brought into my life a gift of optimism, expansive thinking, and boundless joy. Today, as I remember Dric, I want to celebrate her life and the mark she left on my heart. Our friendship was one of those rare, unfiltered connections where every conversation was a journey in itself, exploring depths that most keep hidden within the pages of their diaries.. I celebrate not just her life, but the lessons her friendship taught me – the power of sisterhood on this journey of womanhood.
So, to you, the woman reading this, my Soul Sis, even though you might be navigating your own challenging Decembers, know that you are not alone. I extend this warmth, this spirit of unbreakable bonds and endless conversations. May you find, or cherish, a sister friendship like the one Dric and I shared. Such bonds are not just about shared laughter and tears; they are about growing together, lifting each other up, and finding light in each other's company, no matter how dark the world may seem.
So, as we navigate this December, let's carry with us the lessons of love, resilience, and the transformative power of our experiences. May we find strength in our struggles and turn our 'lasts' into gateways of new beginnings. Let's remember that every ending paves the way for newness. Let's hold onto the lessons, the love, and the memories, using them as stepping stones to move forward, stronger and more grounded. Embrace the Sagittarian spirit of optimism while looking forward to the Capricorn-driven ambition of the New Year, and remember – you are not alone on this journey.
Our experiences, no matter how painful, are the vessels in which our resilience and strength are shaped. This December, I invite you to join me in a journey of transformation – from pain to empowerment, from loss to profound gratitude.
As we step into the holiday season and the new year, let’s do so with determination, hope, and a heart full of love – for ourselves and for the sisterhood that binds us. Together, let's turn our 'lasts' into 'firsts', our trials into triumphs, and step into a future bright with possibilities. Together, let's step into the new year empowered, determined, and filled with hope. We are resilient, we are strong, and we are ever-evolving!
D- Dreams- Pursue your dreams.
R- Resonance- live a life that resonates with your authentic self.
I- Identity- Embrace your uniqueness and what makes you, YOU.
C- Connection- create and build meaningful and supportive relationships.
Love Always,
Coach Lori
